Lists, Resolutions, and Determination: A Year in the Life of a First-Time Business Owner

As the year wraps up, I find myself knee-deep in two things: holiday cookies and a mountain of lists. (Okay, three things if you count my kids’ ever-growing wish list to Santa.) This time last year, I had no idea what was ahead as I stepped into my first year of running Marketing Intellect. Spoiler alert: it’s been a rollercoaster.  Let me just say—starting a business is not for the faint of heart. It’s for the bold, the stubborn, and the coffee-fueled. Every day has been a mix of “I’ve got this!” and “What new chaos is this?” But here’s the thing: it’s also been wildly rewarding.


Lists, Resolutions, and Wingin’ It

We’re in that season where everyone’s talking about resolutions and vision boards. Me? I haven’t made a vision board (though if I did, it’d probably feature snacks, sleep, and a beach vacation). Instead, I have lists—endless, messy, chaotic lists.

There’s the to-do list for tomorrow, the “big dream” list for next year, and the ever-evolving “what was I thinking when I wrote this down?” list. These lists are my not-so-secret weapon. They keep me grounded when life gets hectic and remind me of the big picture when my brain wants to spiral.

Running a business has taught me that goals are a lot like these lists: they’re messy, imperfect, and never quite finished. But that’s okay—progress beats perfection every time.


Failing, Learning, and Doing It Anyway

This year, I’ve learned a lot (mostly from failing first). Like I tell my daughters, determination changes everything. It’s what keeps you going when you’re juggling work, life, and the occasional mid-meeting meltdown (yours or your kid’s, take your pick).

Being a first-year business owner means everything is new—and sometimes downright terrifying. But it also means every win feels like you’ve conquered a mountain. Sure, it’s not getting any easier, but it’s definitely getting more rewarding.


Here’s to Hustling and Holiday Cheer

As the holidays roll in, I’m embracing it all—the hardships, the celebrations, and yes, even the resolutions I’ll probably forget by February. This season is a mix of “look how far I’ve come” and “how the heck do I fit that into my schedule?”

So here’s to Year Two: to scribbled lists, ambitious goals, and the sheer determination to keep showing up. Here’s to laughing at the fails, celebrating the wins (big or small), and making it all up as we go along.

As I tell my girls—and now myself—determination changes everything. So let’s tackle the holidays, the New Year, and all the curveballs with humor, grit, and maybe a little wine.

Cheers to the season of hustle, heart, and hope. 2025, I’m coming for you. 💪🎉


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